Indifference and neglect often do much more damage than outright dislike.
"You may not agree with a woman, but to criticize her appearance- as opposed to her idea or actions- isn’t doing anyone any favours, least of all you. Insulting a woman’s looks when they have nothing to do with the issue at hand implies a lack of comprehension on your part, an inability to engage with high level thinking. You may think she’s ugly, but everyone thinks you’re an idiot."
- Hilary Clinton